A heart at a piece
By Danny Last week on the post One Key To Developing Compassion for the Offender , somebody had a great question/comment. You can read the full comment here , but it can be summed up as follows: “If we don’t call people out on bad, rude, unkind behavior, then I feel like we have no standards left at all. Sure, everyone is fighting a battle of some sort, but if there is no expectation from others – from their community or society as a whole – why would they make any effort at all to over come those struggles?” This question, in some form or another, arises nearly every time the ideas of compassion are discussed on this blog…for good reason. No one wants to get walked all over, treated as a doormat, or dehumanized. Unfortunately, sometimes when this concept of compassion and understanding and patience is advocated, it sounds like you’re telling someone to do exactly that—get treated as a doormat, or just play nice and it will all go away. But that isn’t what I’m advocating at all. Pract...